Love without baggages

For the sake of those "eat potato" ones.. the ang moh ver of my prev post

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Thanks to Dr Jack, I was given another lesson on life - to always enjoy the feeling of being in love, to the extent of being ready to be hurt by the other party. Only then, will you be able to enjoy the whole delightful process.

It's kinda strange that "how to be in love"..needs to be taught?

Then it dawned on me, it is not easy when two persons are together - selfishness, holdinh yourself back and giving yourself excuses to retreat, possessiveness, greed..all come into play.

To enjoy the feeling of being in love, one has to be able to think of all means and way to create moments that sparkle. Being ready to be hurt, you are already on the way of giving your all without respite..

Nothing holding you back.. free and easy.

It's time to throw away the baggages.
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And know I know why sometimes I rather blog in Chinese..中文永远更含蓄，更丰富 :)

Was just talking to the Leo the other night on this, and was telling him that the downside of this seems to be that there are always room for abuse if the recipient does not recipocrate. And he simply said that in the first place, the person shouldn't even have the idea to expect anything in return. If not, the person will never have a peace of mind for not knowing whether if he is going to receive anything in return. Then that defeats the purpose of being in love in the first place.

The concept seems so 理所当然 for him :/