I heard Geri's song on Class 95 today, immediately posted onto Facebook and tagged her. But knowing her, it may be Christmas before she may finally see the tag.
The question about what would you want to do, if money is not an issue, I would always think about Geri. Ever since I had been playing as a junior under her, we would always know that Geri liked to sing and write songs. I still remember some of the other older seniors were skeptical about the sustainability of being an artiste in Singapore. But that doesn't stop her from having one Number 1 hit . And funding her own album. All the time while she is officially still a personal trainer by profession. We missed her sometimes when she couldn't come down for games, the older seniors teased her for caring about her clients more than her team mates..and life went on.
We just celebrated Geri's birthday recently, and she announced that she is likely going to sign on as a song writer.
That's really coming a long way, and never a time did she think that she would let go of her dreams, to do something that she had always wanted to do since young (well, maybe she could have deal with her issues and get down to it last time, but that is another story - nothing is ever too late).
I wonder how many people get to live out their dreams in their lifetime.
I wonder how many people even know what their dreams are, clouded by the realism and demand for practicality that is life, and eventually forgotten.
能活出自己的梦想,是幸福的。
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Sex.Violence.FamilyValues
I had a "blue moon" type of a lazy day today, which saw me let off early today to roam Orchard Road for a bit before dinner. And just in time to catch this movie in the late afternoon.
When I first heard about this show, the controversies surrounding the ban seem pretty serious - 20 out of 24 advisory panels who felt the comments were distasteful and demeaning must have been quite substantial and justifiable to call for it not to be shown, no?
Until I watched the movie, which regretfully, the controversial bits in the second story "Porn Masala" were voided out with just Adrian Pang yammering in silence, which i then compared with the clip on the youtube preview.
I wonder what was going through the production team's mind when they decide to push the boundary, but I have heard worse. We have a common joke when still in the blue, that certain offenses are predominantly "prerogatives" of particular races - the gamblers, the drug addicts, the wife beaters/drunkards. More often than not, it is backed up by historical and current data; we would be blind or super naive to think otherwise.
Of course, racial sensitivities have always been an issue in Singapore. Friendly jibes aside, again, we would be super naive to think that we can be hanky-dory if we start throwing racial slurs about, which may finally bordering on personal insult, someone takes offense, and it just takes an innocent spark for a normal jibe traded escalate to events that may lead to greater racial divide driven by distrust. It goes back to the primordial instinct of having to preserve one self, and following thus, one's self worth and all the things one identifies him or herself with. Just remember the outcries when the Chinese student called Singaporeans "dogs" (when I was wondering what the boy could have encountered to spit that comment, I can only so imagine all the mainland ah-tiong jokes and insults that could have been thrown his way).
And perhaps that was the reason why the 20 panel members were playing the safe cards, that the slurs in "Porn Masala" could indeed offend fellow Indians if taken too seriously, and thus need not be shown here to incite any displeasure to start with. Not that the accolades of the film helped - although there could be indian communities in those countries, I wonder if these were indie film selection with a limited audience, hence the potential lash-back was kept to a minimal. And even if there were Indians who had watched the film, could those be discerning viewers who understood that certain artistic discretion had to given to deliver the idea across?
Coming back to the movie. Do I think that the part was necessary? Yes. The punch was gone when the racist parts were removed. Would I have been offended if the insulted race was Chinese? I could be instinctively, if I had not understood that the insult had to be uttered in the movie for a purpose.
So rather than saying that Singaporeans are not mature for the show, let's not be too damning; but rather, that the movie needs mature audience to discern artistic license to convey the satire, and not for any ordinary man-on-the-street, easily offended or the faint hearted. Will there ever be a time when such racial slurs in a movie like Sex.Violence.Family Values will never raise any eyebrows? How about never, until we have to share the spaces with another organism such that we see fellow human as closer brothers and brothers, than let's say, aliens. But well, that could be my pessimism at its best.
Anyhow, I think the controversies very much mar the essence of the whole movie, which airs the "dirty little ditties" of squeaky clean Singapore. Witty, funny, never a dull moment. We need to loosen up a little!
Friday, March 15, 2013
Serendipity
Something has been simmering all day...and I can't put a finger to it.
And that makes me really edgy.
Until I found this.
And that makes me really edgy.
Until I found this.
Thursday, March 7, 2013
Lincoln
If you don't stand for something, you will fall for anything.
xxxxx
I have a bad habit of thinking about shows that I have just watched, well past the next 24 hours post-show, regurgitating and savour the bits and pieces of the show again and again(a gross metaphor..but work has taken a toll on the brain. Try re-formating reports and powerpoints for 2 weeks in a row).
The spirit portrayed by Daniel Day Lewis as Lincoln moved me to no bounds - the stoic-ness, bearing the weight of the war and family. His beliefs, that moved mountains and made history.
The skeptic in me wonder whether if he had started the civil war due to his conviction to restore natural justice of the world (that slavery was wrong) or tool for power play (over the Southern conferederete states). Even so, a man being the sum of his experiences, I also wonder what had made the man that he was - what had he seen or felt, to culminate to his humanitarian principles and beliefs that slavery has no place in the world that he was living in (one that the word "humanitarian" probably didn't even exist)?
I guess that calls for another movie.
xxxxx
It took another almost 100 years before what Lincoln set out to do see some fruition. And as proclaimed in the movie, the impossibles became a reality - inter-racial marriages, WOMEN GETTING TO VOTE (which led me to a point about a book i read recently - apparently in some parts of the world, they must think women imbecile, cos where in place of having a man as the witness, you will need two women as witnesses, before the testimonies could be accepted).
When it had probably appeared almost unimaginable, became a natural fact of life. Which led me to wonder what else could have appeared unimaginable now, may became a common way of life, if given time. Gay marriage is one definitely (I totally don't see any wrong in that)...hmm..what else..?
xxxxx
My (very limited) knowledge of the civil wars between the Confederates and the Union came not from any history books, but from the trials and tribulations of Scarlett O'Hara. I didn't choose to do History in school, probably due to the fact that I was half dozing off during the history lessons during the lower secondary classes on hot, humid afternoons.
I remembered Mrs Kit, the history teacher called my name out of the blue once before I took the last step into dreamland. I stood up dazed, and my partner seated beside me had to discreetly point out the paragraph, which I read out without ever knowing what exactly was the question. Mrs Nair (i think that was her name), the Geography teacher was more gregarious. I also remember (and forever be amazed) that she would write out all the Geography notes every lesson on the blackboard from memory. Which meant that i couldn't be falling asleep while writing at the same time as I form mental image of disintegration of rocks due to alternating state of water lodged in crevices.
Obviously I chose to do Geography.
A friend pointed out that history is still important, to learn how things came to be so, and keeps lessons of mistakes made. I don't doubt that, I just wonder how much people keep in mind of catastrophic events in the history to prevent stepping off the cliffs ahead of them, blinded or distracted by the scenery along the way. It seems like we never believe that we may make the same mistakes, and forge ahead with foolhardy optimism; anyway, I can only imagine that a person who always worry that we may re-commit the same mistakes and foretell our doom as the ultimate pessimist, which is equally not a good thing either.
And even so, I wonder how much can history tell us about events which had never happened before, like global warming (yes, despite naysayers claiming that it's all a farce, I believe in global warming). I don't think anything can teach us how to deal with things like that, and we ourselves may become text book examples for our future generations ("If only our ancestors had known to stop destroying Earth, we would not be staying underground/in the sea/on Mars now").
I guess that calls for another movie.
xxxxx
It took another almost 100 years before what Lincoln set out to do see some fruition. And as proclaimed in the movie, the impossibles became a reality - inter-racial marriages, WOMEN GETTING TO VOTE (which led me to a point about a book i read recently - apparently in some parts of the world, they must think women imbecile, cos where in place of having a man as the witness, you will need two women as witnesses, before the testimonies could be accepted).
When it had probably appeared almost unimaginable, became a natural fact of life. Which led me to wonder what else could have appeared unimaginable now, may became a common way of life, if given time. Gay marriage is one definitely (I totally don't see any wrong in that)...hmm..what else..?
xxxxx
My (very limited) knowledge of the civil wars between the Confederates and the Union came not from any history books, but from the trials and tribulations of Scarlett O'Hara. I didn't choose to do History in school, probably due to the fact that I was half dozing off during the history lessons during the lower secondary classes on hot, humid afternoons.
I remembered Mrs Kit, the history teacher called my name out of the blue once before I took the last step into dreamland. I stood up dazed, and my partner seated beside me had to discreetly point out the paragraph, which I read out without ever knowing what exactly was the question. Mrs Nair (i think that was her name), the Geography teacher was more gregarious. I also remember (and forever be amazed) that she would write out all the Geography notes every lesson on the blackboard from memory. Which meant that i couldn't be falling asleep while writing at the same time as I form mental image of disintegration of rocks due to alternating state of water lodged in crevices.
Obviously I chose to do Geography.
A friend pointed out that history is still important, to learn how things came to be so, and keeps lessons of mistakes made. I don't doubt that, I just wonder how much people keep in mind of catastrophic events in the history to prevent stepping off the cliffs ahead of them, blinded or distracted by the scenery along the way. It seems like we never believe that we may make the same mistakes, and forge ahead with foolhardy optimism; anyway, I can only imagine that a person who always worry that we may re-commit the same mistakes and foretell our doom as the ultimate pessimist, which is equally not a good thing either.
And even so, I wonder how much can history tell us about events which had never happened before, like global warming (yes, despite naysayers claiming that it's all a farce, I believe in global warming). I don't think anything can teach us how to deal with things like that, and we ourselves may become text book examples for our future generations ("If only our ancestors had known to stop destroying Earth, we would not be staying underground/in the sea/on Mars now").
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